KEYS TO CARE GIVING TOP 10 THINGS TO KEEP IN MIND

1. Stay informed take a caregivers Class SAY WHAT YOU FEEL, OUT LOUD - It's important to find a way to let your feelings out. Talk with friends, a therapist or clergy member. Join a support group where there are others who are experiencing the same feelings 2. BE PATIENT AND UNDERSTANDING - People with Alzheimer's aren't "misbehaving" or forgetting on purpose - they have a disease. 3 FOCUS ON FEELINGS - If it's difficult to understand what's being said, look for clues. Maybe it's the tone of voice or how the person is acting. Feelings can speak louder than words! 4. KEEP IT SIMPLE - This applies to just about everything. For instance, -asking "What would you like for dinner?" used to be OK. But now your loved one may be confused by choices. So instead, say something like, "it's time for dinner now". 5. DON'T ARGUE - Alzheimer's can cause confusion. If your loved one says something you don't agree with, let it go. Arguing makes it worse.. 6. BE SENSITIVE - An adult with Alzheimer's is still an adult. Don't say things in front of your loved one as if he or she is not there. 7. ENJOY THE GOOD DAYS - OR MOMENTS - Once in awhile it helps to remind yourself that your time together is precious. If you do, it will help make the good days even better and the rough ones a little smoother. .8. DON'T BE AFRAID TO ASK FOR HELP - You can't do everything. Hire a companion, health aide or use adult day care services. It takes some of the burden off you and benefits your loved one. 9. MAKE TIME FOR YOURSELF - Find ways to take breaks. It's difficult to care for someone when you are tired and overwhelmed, 10. NOBODY'S PERFECT - Do the best you can.